Sure we can all fit into each others holes, but it's hard to find someone who completes you so well...

People seem to ponder the word soul mate and never give credit to the actual meaning itself. And so it is never truly valued or appreciate the way it should be when you find the person that fits that meaning. Songs and movies have turned it into somewhat of a cheesy cliche sort of thing and since monogamy is not realistic and relationships usually always end in chaos it has proved to be just that. True love and loyal friends are two of the hardest things to find. Which is why it should be valued more, in the correct way. A true deep connection should be valued and appreciated and regarded in a realistic way; therefore being aware that (although the connection has been established) it will not be easy to stick together through thick and thin. And you will encounter obstacles. It's enough to know that happiness comes in small moments, so be prepared to fight for this love. And don't take something that doesn't come easily and can't be replaced, for granted. Because this is the mistake people make when they consider the term life partner, they figure that if they were able to make a wonderful connection with one person, why not with someone else? Disregarding how unlikely the whole thing was in the first place and how lucky they've been. Soul mate is finding a person who can connect with you on such a deep emotional and spiritual level, that nothing else could compare. A love that establishes itself as supreme because this person would do anything for you and has been there for you when no one else was and continues to persevere and stay by your side. They have claimed their rightful spot and no one can take that from them, and even if they did it would never be the same. And it's something that a lot of people unfortunately never find. Because humans are inherently selfish creatures and monogamy is not realistic. It is not likely for someone to remain with just one person throughout their whole life, that would be extreme dedication and something that humans don't usually offer in the relationship department. Divorce rates are getting higher and aside from whether a couple stays together or not, they will have most likely already had previous lovers. The average person has an average of 5 sexual partners in a lifetime. What pisses me off is that I am the exception in so many ways for the person I love and she failed to ever realize. I have immense perseverance and dedication, I am extremely loyal, and I can truly give the word soul mate meaning again because I will make you believe, I will show you. This person had all of the impossibilities in me; we had a monogamous relationship, she was my first everything and I wanted her to be my only everything. See, that's where "the one" comes into play. It's not like it's the only person you could date and fuck and whatever, I mean sure there's lots of people who would be willing to do those things with me, people who would be honored; but see that's easy to find. It's easy to find sexual partners, it's easy to find people who fit into your holes, and can tell you sweet things. But it's extremely hard to find a person who will actually follow through with what they say; someone sincere and loyal, someone who truly gives a shit about you, and would never leave your side. Someone who you can open up with and trust in and connect with on such a deep level. That's where "the one" applies, because it's that one person you find that sometimes makes you think was meant to be because the universe does work in mysterious ways and good things gravitate towards each other, it's scientific. And it's the one person that you choose to be with. It's the person that you choose to be worth putting up with all the bull crap for because, realistically, there will be fights and drama and bullshit. It's the one person you choose to be worth fighting for, because they are. And they are the only one for you in so many ways that no one else could compare, and they are the only one you will be with because you decide to be faithful and loyal and quite frankly don't need anyone else.